One exact thing
You take one particular thing and do it properly, instead of five things halfway.
Why it works
Five things done halfway leave neither of you anything to remember. One thing, done as it was meant, is something you can have an opinion about afterwards. Being exact also makes it easy on the other person: somebody who knows precisely what is supposed to happen does not have to guess at what matters.
How to do it
- 01
Choose one thing from your shared list, a material, a garment, a roleplay, a camera. One. Not three.
- 02
Whoever it means most to tells the other exactly how it should go: what is said, when, what matters. Being that precise is not embarrassing, it is the entire point.
- 03
Do it. And do only it.
What usually goes wrong
The one describing it is too vague out of politeness, and then ends up disappointed by something nobody could have known. Say the material, the words and the order. Afterwards it is worth telling the wrong detail from the wrong idea. Most of what did not work was the first.
If it did not work, it was usually the wrong detail, not the wrong idea. Ask which one before writing it off.
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You meet as two people who have never seen each other before, and neither of you breaks it.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.