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Kinky · Half an hour

From the chair

One of you does what people do on their own, and the other only watches.

How to do it

  • 01

    Put a chair where it can be seen from the bed, and agree that whoever sits in it does not get up, does not join in and does not give instructions.

  • 02

    Whoever is being watched does exactly what they would do alone, with the light on. That is the whole difficulty and the whole point.

  • 03

    Swap the week after, so that neither of you is always the one being looked at.

Look after each other

Being looked at is far harder than looking. If the person in the chair laughs from nerves it lands as a verdict — so agree in advance that nothing is said until it is over.

Two adults stand close together in a bedroom, smiling at each other.

What you both want.

Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.

Take the questionnaire

For adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.