← Every recipe

Beginner · One working day

Three messages before six

The evening starts at eleven in the morning.

How to do it

  • 01

    Agree tonight that tomorrow you will each send three messages before six. No more than three.

  • 02

    The first is about something you have done together. The second is about something you want. The third is a time.

  • 03

    Keep the replies short. It is not a conversation, and the point is that something is still owed when you get home.

Look after each other

Write from a phone nobody else looks at, and check you are in the right thread before you send. Agree too what gets deleted afterwards.

Two adults stand close together in a bedroom, smiling at each other.

What you both want.

Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.

Take the questionnaire

For adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.