Beginner · One week
Who starts
A week where it is settled who brings it up — and it is not whoever usually does.
How to do it
- 01
Pick three days in the coming week. One of you initiates on all three.
- 02
The other answers yes or no, and nothing else. No negotiating.
- 03
Swap the week after, and talk afterwards about what felt different.
Look after each other
A no this week means nothing beyond itself. That is the entire point of agreeing it in advance.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.