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Beginner · Thirty minutes

Show me with your hand

You stop guessing. One of you shows, the other watches.

How to do it

  • 01

    One of you touches yourself the way you would with nobody else in the room. The other watches and does not help.

  • 02

    Swap. This time whoever is watching rests a hand on top of the other’s and follows, without taking over.

  • 03

    Afterwards each name one thing you did not know.

Look after each other

Showing is easier than being watched. Turn the overhead light off, and agree that whoever is showing can stop without explaining why.

Two adults stand close together in a bedroom, smiling at each other.

What you both want.

Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.

Take the questionnaire

For adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.