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Beginner · Two hours

The long evening

An evening with nowhere to get to — bed included.

How to do it

  • 01

    Put the phones in another room and set aside two hours you both know will hold.

  • 02

    Touch each other without it having to lead anywhere. Swap after twenty minutes.

  • 03

    Stop when you want to, including before you get any further.

Look after each other

Agree beforehand that it is entirely fine if the evening ends with the two of you simply falling asleep.

Two adults stand close together in a bedroom, smiling at each other.

What you both want.

Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.

Take the questionnaire

For adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.