One good garment
One thing bought on purpose for one person, instead of a drawer full of things nobody chose.
How to do it
- 01
Whoever it matters to says exactly what it is: the material, the colour, what it covers and what it does not. Vagueness is what makes this sort of thing go wrong.
- 02
Buy it together, or let one buy it while the other stays out of it entirely. Both work. What matters is deciding which of the two beforehand.
- 03
Wear it for a single evening at home, with nothing else new happening. One thing at a time is the whole method.
The one it matters to will want to go further the same evening. The other said yes to one thing. Ask before adding anything, and let a no be the end of the sentence.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.