One tie
One tie, learned properly, instead of five you saw in a photograph.
Why it works
One tie you can do is worth more than five you have seen in a picture. It takes an evening to learn one properly, and that evening pays for itself every time after. Practising with your clothes on sounds excessive and is not: hands learn faster when nobody is waiting.
How to do it
- 01
Pick one tie, wrists in front of the body, or a simple chest harness, and learn it from a guide with your clothes on and the light up. Put safety shears where both of you can reach them, next to the bed.
- 02
Tie slowly. Whoever is tying says what is happening as it happens; whoever is being tied answers green, yellow or red, and must be able to move their fingers throughout.
- 03
Stay in it twenty minutes at most the first time, and do not leave the room. Untie while you both still want more.
What usually goes wrong
The rope stays on too long because it looks calm. Twenty minutes is enough the first time. Numbness, tingling or cold fingers mean the rope comes off now, not gets loosened a little. Nothing round the neck, and nothing bearing weight unless somebody has taught you.
Numbness, pins and needles, cold or white fingers mean the rope comes off now, not that it gets loosened a little. Nothing round the neck, nothing bearing weight without training, and nobody is ever left tied and alone, not for two minutes.
What the recipe asks for is gone through type by type in the sex toy guide.
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Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.