The blindfold hour
One of you sees nothing for an hour and does not have to guess what is coming.
Why it works
Without sight the waiting gets longer and the touch gets clearer. The one wearing the blindfold also loses most of their own self consciousness, and for many that is the real gain. Three things laid out in advance is plenty. It is the change between them that makes the hour, not the number.
How to do it
- 01
Use a scarf, not a hand. Set out three things beforehand, something cold, something soft, something with a smell, within reach of the bed.
- 02
Do not say what you are doing, and do not say what comes next. The wait between two things can be longer than it usually is.
- 03
Take the blindfold off while you are both still lying down, and let the other adjust to the light before anybody talks.
What usually goes wrong
The sense of time goes first, and a quarter of an hour can feel like five minutes or like an hour. Say out loud at intervals how long it has been. Take the blindfold off while you are both still lying down, and wait to talk until the eyes have adjusted to the light.
Without sight, the sense of time is the first thing to go. Say out loud every quarter of an hour how long it has been, or agree that the blindfold comes off if it is asked about twice.
What the recipe asks for is gone through type by type in the sex toy guide.
More in the same direction
- Medium · Half an hour
The agreement first
The half hour that makes the rest possible.
- Medium · One hour
The long tease
Everything that usually goes quickly, done at half the speed.
- Beginner · One hour
The question hour
An evening where you only talk. Nothing has to follow.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.