The blindfold hour
One of you sees nothing for an hour and does not have to guess what is coming.
How to do it
- 01
Use a scarf, not a hand. Set out three things beforehand — something cold, something soft, something with a smell — within reach of the bed.
- 02
Do not say what you are doing, and do not say what comes next. The wait between two things can be longer than it usually is.
- 03
Take the blindfold off while you are both still lying down, and let the other adjust to the light before anybody talks.
Without sight, the sense of time is the first thing to go. Say out loud every quarter of an hour how long it has been — or agree that the blindfold comes off if it is asked about twice.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.