Beginner · One hour
The question hour
An evening where you only talk. Nothing has to follow.
How to do it
- 01
Set aside an hour and say out loud that the evening will not end in sex. That is not a rule against anything — it is what makes the rest sayable.
- 02
Take turns asking one question at a time. Whoever answers decides how much to say, and "I would rather not answer that" is a complete answer.
- 03
Finish by each naming one thing you would like to try within a month.
Look after each other
If something still sits heavily afterwards, pick it up again the next day in daylight. Not the same evening.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.