Medium · Half an hour
The agreement first
The half hour that makes the rest possible.
How to do it
- 01
Each write down three things you want and one you do not. Swap the notes.
- 02
Pick one item from each other’s list. Only one.
- 03
Agree the stop word, and what happens afterwards: who fetches water, who stays lying down.
Look after each other
Aftercare is not the end of the scene. It is part of it, and it gets planned the same way.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.