BDSM · An hour and a half, thirty minutes of which is talking

The first scene

A short scene with everything around it in place.

01
Spend half an hour agreeing three things before anything starts: what may happen, what may not, and which word stops everything without discussion. Write them down. Memory is worse than people think when they are in the middle of it.
02
Keep the scene short — twenty minutes. A scene that ends while both still want it is a better beginning than one that ends because it ran out.
03
Stay lying down afterwards. A blanket, water, no phones, and no debriefing before the next day at the earliest.

Look after each other

Whoever let go can dip a day later without anything having gone wrong. Agree beforehand who says so.

What you both want.

Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.

For adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.