Medium · An evening, and a week after it
The third name
You talk about a third person. Nothing happens.
How to do it
- 01
Agree beforehand and out loud that nobody contacts anybody, and that nothing happens in the week that follows. That is the whole premise.
- 02
Each say what is appealing about the thought — and what is unpleasant about it. Both halves have to be said. Whoever says only one has not answered.
- 03
Agree on one thing you could not live with, and say it out loud. That is the one worth remembering.
Look after each other
Return to it after a week. What felt harmless on a Friday evening can look different by Thursday — and the other way round.
What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.