Beginner · One morning
The wrong hour
The same thing, at an hour when you would otherwise be doing something else.
How to do it
- 01
Find the hour of the week when you never do it — a Saturday morning, a Tuesday at seven in the evening — and set aside forty minutes there.
- 02
Change nothing else. The bed can stay unmade and the dishes can stand.
- 03
Get up afterwards and finish the day. That is half the point.
Look after each other
Pick an hour when nobody rings the doorbell and nobody has to be collected. A quarter of an hour of worrying whether you have time costs more than the hour gives.

What you both want.
Twenty questions, answered separately. You see only what you both said yes to.
Take the questionnaireFor adults over 18 only. Intended for two adults in a consenting relationship.